Believing You are ‘Enough’ EP#258

Believing You are ‘Enough’ EP#258

 

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YYou want to start your own biz, but you’re not sure you’re ‘good’ enough. You want to put your name in for the promotion, but you often think, “I’m not experienced enough”. You want to go back to school, but you often feel like you’re not young enough to start over. No matter what the goal… there is this constant phrase on loop in your mind… Not enough, not enough, not enough. UGH!

Sound familiar? If so, join the club. No, seriously. In my decade+ of working in personal development, I can tell you that the idea that “I’m not enough” is probably one of the most common, deep-seated beliefs people hold. And, the bitch of it all, is that it damn-near always stifles your growth and keeps you from going after what you really want in your life. In essence, feeling “not enough’ can contribute to a shit-ton of unnecessary heartache and unhappiness.

In this week’s show, I look at four concepts you can employ to bust out of feeling ‘less than’ and step into some serious worthiness and self-confidence. Get ready to shed that old belief and get into some serious life-changing action!

This pod explores:

  • How feeling ‘not enough’ shows up in ways we don’t expect
  • The lie you’ve likely bought into about what defines ‘enough’
  • My favorite tool to help you really, truly feel like ‘enough’ in all areas of your life

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5 Ways to Let Go of Judgement (Especially If You Think You Don’t Judge) EP#257

5 Ways to Let Go of Judgement (Especially If You Think You Don’t Judge) EP#257

 

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YYou’d like to think you’re a super evolved person… all open-minded. Super embracive of everyone.

But, then you see someone on social media and you make up a whole story about who they are… without knowing a damn thing about them. Or maybe you’re hangin’ with your best buds and you find yourself talking shit about someone who you both work with… without knowing all the facts.

Before you start beating yourself up for being a judgey judgerson, please know that we ALL do this. Most of the time it’s a complete reflex… a knee-jerk reaction. And… and there is a way to start questioning your judgemental instincts. So, let’s grow a bit, shall we?

In this episode, I share five specific tactics you can employ to break you out of your concrete conclusions and assumptions and step into a place of genuine curiosity and inclusivity for everyone you engage with. Because, I’m assuming you’d appreciate the same grace from others, amiright?

This pod explores:

  • The first place to look if you think you don’t ever judge others
  • My favorite mantra to snap me out of a judgemental spiral
  • What to do with your thought process when you find yourself making up stories about other people
  • How all this stuff actually reflects your own judgement of self (oh, shit!!) and what to do about it

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6 Ways to Kick Procrastination in the Ass EP#256

6 Ways to Kick Procrastination in the Ass EP#256

 

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EEver find yourself dragging your feet on something you know you must get done, but you just keep putting it off and putting it off? Um. Yeah. Me too. And so does everyone else. So what is this really about? Often it’s stuff we know will help us be more productive, change our quality of life, or make us healthier but we still put it off as long as we possibly can.

Well, there actually may be some concrete reasons WHY you’re doing the constant “feet drag” and understanding these reasons may just help you get into action sooner. You know… Instead of stressing the fuck out at the 11th hour. #thestruggleisreal

This pod explores:

  • The two most common types of fear that holds us back from accomplishing our “to-do lists”
  • Why your chosen “method” of accomplishing your task may be total self-sabotage [Hint: You can simply change the method]
  • How to figure out if you really even want this “thing” in the first place (As in… does this really need to be on you to-do list to begin with?)
  • How perfectionism is ruling the show and how to start letting go so you actually get shit done

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Organized AF: How to Implement Household Systems for Far Less Stress + Overwhelm EP#255

Organized AF: How to Implement Household Systems for Far Less Stress + Overwhelm EP#255

 

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TTell me if this sounds familiar: You get home and you’re like, “Omg, WTF am I going to make for dinner?” or you are about to leave the house and you’re like, “Did anyone take the dog out? Or feed him?” Or maybe everywhere you turn you just see stack after stack of shit you need to get to or pile after pile that you were sure someone else would have taken care of by now.

If you’re in the boat of constant stress and perpetual overwhelm, there is actually a pretty simple solution! In one word – SYSTEMS. Getting everything in your household (or life, for that matter) dialed in to a specific system. How amazing would it be if everyone in your household knew exactly who’s turn it was to walk the dog, do the laundry, or load the dishwasher? Better yet, what if you had you the buy-in of your kids? Or spouse? Or roommate? And how thrilling would it be if they were all actually excited to do it?

Seem like a pipe dream? It’s not, my friend. In this episode, I share a 7-step “system” to implementing… um, systems. Mr. Smith and I share how this has completely changed our home life for the better and the exact steps you can take to do the same for yours. Get ready for a shit ton more ease, peace, and order in your household!

This pod explores:

  • How to figure out what things in your household MUST have a system
  • How to get the buy-in of your new organizational ideas with everyone in the household… Kids, roommates, spouses, etc.
  • The number one thing you need to let go of in order to create faaaaar less overwhelm
  • Our specific “Smith Systems” we employ in our household to keep things running smooth and stress-free

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How To Apologize With Grace + Kindness EP#254

How To Apologize With Grace + Kindness EP#254

 

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YYou’ve made a mess. And you need to clean it up. But, GOD DAMN it’s so uncomfortable to apologize to someone when you’ve fucked up. What do you usually do instead? Maybe sweep it under the rug? Maybe try various acts of kindness so they magically get the hint that you’re sorry? Totally ghost them because it’s just tooooo embarrassing and shameful to face?

I get it. It is so uncomfortable and truly vulnerable to own up to your mistakes and actually ask for forgiveness from someone you have wronged. But, never fear, I’ve gottchu covered. In this episode, I share a 6 step process to delivering an effective and genuine apology. It may not be easy, but at least you can lay your head down at night knowing that you did your part.

This pod explores:

  • The importance of asking permission to apologize (Wait, what? Yes, it’s a thing)
  • The number one place you may get tripped up during an apology and how to avoid it
  • How to shift from focusing on WHAT happened to how the other person FEELS
  • What it really sounds like to own your shit

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6 WAYS TO COMBAT OVERWHELM EP#253

6 WAYS TO COMBAT OVERWHELM EP#253

 

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EEver find yourself trying to add yet another thing to your already-packed schedule and that little voice in your head screams, “I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR THIS!!!” Or how ’bout this one: You just can’t bring yourself to tell someone “No”, so you pack on an additional obligation that totally sends you over the edge into Full. Blown. Overwhelm. Total straw-that-broke-the-camel’s-back style. And, then you proceed to unleash that overwhelm on your hubs, or kids, or some poor, unassuming bystander.

Listen, we all struggle with allocating our time wisely, and even the most structured peeps can fall into the trap of feeling as though you never have enough time and become super stressed by your overwhelming… um, overwhelm. But all is certainly not lost. And, believe it or not, there are probably a decent amount of things you can easily shift to bring you loads more time (well, maybe more like a handful) and shit-ton less overwhelm.

This pod explores:

  • How saying “No” to bullshit obligations can make your world waaaay more magical
  • Why you need to implement some serious “systems” and what-the-hell that means
  • The sneaky roll Perfectionism plays in your time management
  • How to ask for help when you soooo don’t want to ask for help

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6 Ways To Get Through Shitty Situations Like A Boss EP#252

6 Ways To Get Through Shitty Situations Like A Boss EP#252

 

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SShit has officially hit the fan. You just got laid off… or fired. You just went through a break-up. You lost someone super close to you. You got passed up for the promotion you thought you nailed. You just found out you have a condition that will require a scary-ass surgery. Your kid just got in legal trouble.

We’ve all been there. Up against seemingly insurmountable odds. Feeling like the only perspective is one of “well, my life fucking sucks”. Not a silver lining in sight. So, what is one to do when up against such challenges? So glad you asked.

In this episode, I cover off six, specific strategies you can employ to flip that frown upside down. (That was super lame, I know.) Believe it or not, all is not lost and there are actual steps you can take to get through this rough patch like a boss. You know… instead of downing a bottle of wine all by yourself on a Tuesday morning at 9am.

This pod explores:

  • How to change your perspective around your circumstance even when it feels completely impossible
  • My favorite “challenge” to give yourself that will totally change how shitty you feel
  • How to set yourself up for success during this rough chapter in ways that may not have occured to you
  • What self-care really looks like during these seasons [hint: it’s not bubble baths and mani/pedis]

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Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage EP#251

Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage EP#251

 

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MMany years ago, I had a discussion with my coach which started out with me bitching and complaining about how unhappy I had been in my life lately. After working through a handful of things, I became SUPER clear that my day in and day out life wasn’t reflective of the things I knew brought me joy and happiness. I wasn’t taking care of my health, wasn’t meditating, wasn’t connecting with like-minded spirits, wasn’t involved in creative projects… so NO WONDER I had hit a rough patch!

Was it that I didn’t know what would help me feel better? Nope. That was just the prob. I totally knew what lit me up, I was just not doing any of those things. I was involved in full-on self-sabotage and I had NO idea I was even doing it!

Perhaps you can relate? Maybe you want to embark on a new career, but instead of researching, you zone out on some rando’s vacation pics on Facebook. Or maybe you want to get healthier, but you continue to hang out with people who make it #supes challenging to go for the kale over the burger. If you’re like most people, chances are you consistently get in your own way and have perpetual non-cohesiveness between what you SAY you want and what you actually DO.

In this episode, I untangle what-the-hell self-sabotage even is, why we do it (even without knowing it), and exactly what you can do about it (like, today!). Be sure to grab your cheatsheet [points to yellow button above] and get ready to make some shit happen.

This pod explores:

  • How our fear is directly related to our self-sabotaging behavior and the question that will get you to the root of your fear
  • The three main areas of your life you need to examine and alter to seriously set yourself up for success
  • How to figure out a game plan for the things you need to keep, stop, and start in your daily routine

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So, OF COURSE I want you to make some serious changes and stop with this self-sabotaging! Be sure you have your Pod #251 worksheets with you while you (re) listen to this pod so you can get into some serious action. Trust… if you just listen and don’t DO, you’re not going to change a damn thing.

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Tough Convos 101 EP#250

Tough Convos 101 EP#250

 

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EEver wonder why having difficult conversations causes soooo much anxiety, often leaving you tongue-tied, frustrated with how you’re getting your point across, and down-right bummed-the-fuck-out? It can be super stressful to approach a sticky topic with someone in your life, especially if you are anticipating a less than enthusiastic response. Believe it or not, there are actually a handful of things you can totally shift in your approach in order to get your message across in a MUCH more effective way. You know, without throwing your husband’s shoes at him.

This episode targets 6 steps you can easily employ to feel much more powerful when you tell your mother-in-law to stop trying to parent your kids. Or whatever other challenging topic you need to address. You’ll learn the most effective way to communicate your needs (and in turn get what you want) without feeling like a big ol’ asshole.

This pod explores:

  • What you need to do BEFORE you have a tough conversation in order to set yourself up for success
  • How to begin a conversation in such a way that the other party is totally willing to hear you out
  • How to get really clear on what you’re asking for or requesting
  • How to own your shit and feel good about what you’re expressing, even if the other person isn’t diggin’ it

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How To Stop Putting Everyone Before Yourself (Without Being An Asshole) EP#249

How To Stop Putting Everyone Before Yourself (Without Being An Asshole) EP#249

 

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IIf it’s not your kids who need something from you, then it’s your boss. If it’s not your boss, then it’s your partner. If it’s not your partner, it’s your neighbor… or your sister or bestie or whoever else. And here you are in a cycle of being a yes-man/woman, constantly putting everyone in front of yourself and doing, doing, doing for everyone else, leaving you empty AF. Not to mention exhausted. And HELLO, Irritability!

If you’ve found yourself in this cycle, let me just say that you are soooo not alone. Our society is constantly telling us that we need to do and be everything for everyone and that faulty cycle is damn-near always a recipe for burnout, exhaustion, and overall unhappiness.

But, help is on the way. In this episode, I cover off six specific tactics you can use to start making yourself important again. And, don’t worry, you’re not going to all of a sudden “let everyone down” and be wracked with guilt. Have a listen and learn simple steps you can take TODAY to start making yourself a priority and, spoiler alert, you’ll actually be a way better person/sibling/parent/colleague/friend because of it.

This pod explores:

  • How your perspective around self-care may be costing you your happiness
  • How to use your voice in small ways that will dramatically increase your self-worth
  • One of my favorite tools for speaking up without “opening a can of worms”
  • Your number one source of support that you are likely overlooking

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