Help! My Partner & I Have Totally Different Dreams & Goals EP#186

Jan 15, 2017

 

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AA listener wrote to the show expressing concern that “I have different dreams and goals than my partner” and wondered what she should do about this prob. Maybe you can relate. Maybe you have different spiritual beliefs than your partner that often lead to heated conversations. Or maybe you would love to eventually quite your job and travel the world, but your spouse doesn’t ever want to move. Maybe you’re a vegan, and your spouse’s carnivorous ways hurt your heart. Or perhaps you would love babies and your partner doesn’t want to touch that with a 9-foot pole.

Having different life goals, visions, beliefs, and dreams than your partner can certainly be divisive, but it doesn’t always have to mean the end of the union. In this episode I offer three major concepts you can use to look at the big picture of your relationship and see if the issues you are battling in your relationship are deal-breakers. I also end the episode with a handful of journal prompts you can use to evaluate the state of your unique situation.

Have a listen, um… because thinking that things would totally be awesome if only your spouse would change sure isn’t working. Amiright?!

This pod explores:

  • Why you don’t always have to understand one another in order to support each other
  • What-the-hell core values are and why they are imperative to navigating opposition in your relationship
  • The difference between compromise and settling (hint: one is awesome, and one not so much)
  • How to grow together and individually, even if you aren’t always on the same page

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I'm a sassy-ass life coach and hypnotherapist who specializes in all things self-worth and confidence. I help aspiring badasses (hint: that's YOU!) speak up for themselves without being assholes. As in... telling your mom to stop butting into your relationship. You feel me, no?

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