If you operate in a femme body or identify as female, itβs highly likely youβve found yourself contending with a litany of body image βissuesβ. I put issues in quotes because the things that we worry about, and subsequently own as our βissuesβ, are purposely manufactured to commodify and exploit our bodies. In essence weβre programmed to have βissuesβ. Theyβre given to us. For example, we used to never worry about having body hair. Like, not even a thing. Then, Gillette pops up like, βHey, we wanna make some money, so how βbout you start to think having hair on your legs is gross and give us money to fix it.βΒ
Think about how many products in your pantry, medicine cabinet, dresser drawers, shower, and bathroom vanity have become vaults for a myriad of products designed to change the way you look. Why? Because we have bought into the societal belief that women are valuable based solely on their bodies. And, we have an unbelievably limited view of which bodies are acceptable and permissible.
But what if your body was an instrument and not an ornament? Whaaaaaa? Yeah. On this weekβs show I dial up Dr. Lexie Kite who, along with her twin sister, Dr. Lindsay Kite, has developed a social movement to redesign how we, as women, view beauty, body image, and the body positive movement. This conversation is a call to arms to examine the myopic lens through which weβve been conditioned to see our bodies. Why? So we can see the breadth of our value. Because you, my friend, are so much more than a body.Β
Get ready to wear a hole in this episode, because it will shake you at your core. In the best way possible.
This pod explores:
- Dr. Lexieβs mantra you need to start using immediatelyβ¦ like, yesterday
- How weβve been grossly misinformed about what positive body image looks like
- What it looks like to practice body image resilienceΒ
- How much of the body positive movement has sorely misdiagnosed the problem (Hint: How focusing on βall bodies are beautifulβ may be missing the markβ¦ What!? I know.)
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ADDITIONAL RESOURCES:
- More Than a Body: Your Body Is an Instrument, Not an Ornament by Drs. Lexie and Lindsay Kite
- The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor
- POD #417:Β [DIAL AN EXPERT] Dismantling Diet Culture (and Hustle Culture) with Susan Hyatt
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THIS WEEK’S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT’ GUESTIE
Lindsay and Lexie help girls and women recognize and reject the harmful effects of objectification in their lives through their significant social media reach, online Body Image Resilience course and facilitator program for dietitians and therapists, their popular book (More Than a Body), and regular speaking engagements for thousands of people of all ages.Β
Connect with Drs. Lexie and Lindsay Kite on Insta
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