When Someone You Love is in a Shitty Relationship EP#069

by | Oct 5, 2014 | 4 comments

 

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EEver find yourself in a situation where someone you love dearly is in (what you perceive to be) a toxic relationship? Feel like your hands are tied in trying to show your loved one what is possible if they choose to stop tolerating such shitty treatment inside their relationship? This can be so incredibly frustrating, and first off, know you are not alone. In this episode, Amy addresses what you CAN do to express your concern to your loved one and how to work through this touchy and complicated topic. This pod explores:

  • How to know what you need to give voice to in order to be at peace
  • How to come from a place of love and express verbally what you see and feel
  • How to establish boundaries if your concern falls on deaf ears
  • How to let go of what is NOT in your control

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4 Comments

  1. Megan
    Megan on October 6, 2014 at 9:44 am

    Episode #69: Really really enjoyed this one. I especially liked the brief touch on bounderies. . . this is definitley something I struggle with and am working towards doing a better job of putting in place. Would love if you guys could go more in-depth on boundaries. . . and even talk about communicating with a passive spouse. . . . I’ve noticed within the last couple of years how co-dependent I’ve become. My husband is very passive, our relationship has been started and maintained on assumptions. . . not the healthiest. I’m really trying to address what I can address and work on. . . There are moments I think I’m/we are making progress, and then days where one step forward feels like two steps back. . . . I would love to hear what you have to say on how to a) stop absorbing others emotions/feelings and b) how to make progress with an individual who is so passive and with an “it is what it is” attitude. . . I’m beginning to lean towards this is his defense mechanism and resisting of change. . . . which is fine, but there comes a point where enough is enough.

    Thanks!

    • Amy
      Amy on October 9, 2014 at 12:55 pm

      Hey, Megan! Thanks so much for listening and sharing your thoughts! Per your suggestion, we’re planning a pod on “Communicating with a Passive Spouse” and “Establishing Boundaries” which I think we be super helpful for other listeners too, so thank you soooo much for your suggestion! They should both air in October, so stay tuned! Thanks again for listening and commenting… so honored!! xo

  2. Stacey
    Stacey on October 13, 2014 at 5:35 am

    Huge hugs and thanks Amy & Mr Smith for addressing this for me! (I actually feel a little star struck that you took on and addressed my concern, haha). So much juicy goodness came out of this and I agree that 1) there is a lot of fear on my part and 2) I need to look after myself and only own how I deliver my message, not the outcome.
    Much love, keep up the amazing work xx

    • Amy
      Amy on October 13, 2014 at 12:41 pm

      Stacey!!! You are most welcome! I’m so honored that you feel star-struck! LOL! Soooo glad this episode was helpful for you and thank you so very much for listening and submitting a topic! Huge love to you! xo