Childolatry: Why Parenthood Today Kills Relationships & What to Do About It EP#061

by | Aug 3, 2014 | 2 comments

 

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EEver wonder if it’s actually possible to have a thriving marriage (or relationship) AND dedicate yourself to raising amazing children at the same time? If you’re like most people, chances are, your marriage takes a backseat to all things child-rearing, leaving you and your spouse less than satisfied in the relationship (and bedroom) department. Based on a recent article in Psychology Today, Amy addresses what seems to be an epidemic of sorts in todays’s relationships, and what PT terms “Childolatry: the worship of one’s children at the expense of one’s marriage” (Psych Today, August 2014). Check out this episode for tangible, real-world tips on how to preserve your relationship, intentionally parent your kids, and actually have some fucking fun while doing it. This pod explores:

  • The controversial Psychology Today article discussing how over-doting parenting is virtually destroying marriages
  • The crucial question to ask yourself to assess your current relationship satisfaction
  • Easy-to-implement systems and tips to restore romance and begin ENJOYING your relationship again

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2 Comments

  1. Stacey
    Stacey on August 13, 2014 at 4:45 pm

    Wow, great pod! And a very timely topic! The stats are shocking yet not surprising. Thankfully, my husband and I are one of the very few who are not just happy, but I truly believe we are ‘happier’ since the birth of our first child. The key as you mentioned is AWARENESS as well as COMMUNICATION and MAINTENANCE, aka WORK. I have seen way too many friends and family before me fall into the trap of the woman especially, forgoing their identity and therefore their relationship once they have children. I just did not like this AT ALL and so made it a priority to NOT let this happen to me or us. We planned and prepared for this transition, not just by reading pregnancy and childbirth books, but also by learning about and working on how our relationship may change. We did your ’30 days to a kick arse relationship’ program to learn tools and put steps in place so that we could protect the sanctity of our relationship. The book ‘stop calling him honey and start having sex’ was also a winner. This preparation has paid off many times over and as you mentioned I think my 8 month old is really reaping the benefits as she is THE happiest baby I have ever ever met. Thanks for the pod – love your work x

    • Amy
      Amy on August 28, 2014 at 12:25 pm

      OMG, Stacey! Thank you so much for sharing your story and how you and your hubs have been so successful. I am SOOOOO glad to see you creating the relationship and parenthood you desire!!! Such a testament to the people the two of you are! I am also beyond honored to have you work through 30DKAR! My heart jumped a bit when I saw that! I am so incredibly blessed to have been a small part of your journey. Thank you, again, for sharing your awesome tale and I wish you nothing but continued happiness! Huge love to you and your fam! xo